|November 19, 2012||Posted by Melinda under Uncategorized|
I’ve now been thoroughly labeled.
Generalized anxiety disorder (or “why Melinda has to have a plan for everything)
ADHD (known in my household as shiny object disease, or why Melinda must always have a goal)
Wood (known to my household as why melinda is grumpy and irritable)
Istj (or why Melinda is bossy and stubborn)
Seasonal affective disorder (or why Melinda is the grinch)
I feel like a library book that they can’t quite figure out whether it belongs in the fantasy or the mystery fiction so they stuff it in young adult.
Makes me wonder how I ever got to vet school
Makes me grateful that I didn’t get these labels until after vet school.
Heaven knows that I already was made aware of how hard and challenging vet school would be and I really didn’t need yet more reasons for people to tell me how hard it would be and how I would struggle and sacrifice.
Because guess what, this has something to do with endurance and horses. Thinking about this made me wonder how often we put labels to horses, or allow others to do so, without realizing that every horse has a gift to offer us, even if it’s on its way to send it along to a more suitable home.
The most common label that I see people applying to horses as either a source of pride or as an excuse is “rescue”.
Often this is the first thing I learn about the horse. That it is a rescue. Or bought from an auction.
It’s like everything is secondary to these labels, as if the owner is afraid that no other accomplishment will seen significant without being examined in this light of the horse being once a rescue.
Are you letting a label on your horse define your relationship? Or your expectations?
Can you accept what your horse has to give you, keep your mind open and look past the labels to see what that horse has to offer the sport?
Lables exist only to help us, and if you decide that the label isn’t helping and is instead an excuse that is keeping you from doing Tevis or some other dream, than work on the problem, don’t proclaim the label even louder. (Goes for your labels AND your horse’s labels).
Btw I am feeling better – that cold knocked me out for a week. Missed most of school last week and gradually returning to normal activities. Farley probably thinks that that she’s been a retired again (NOT!). I’m taking it easy for the holiday – have very little reserves and a lot of catching up to do for my finals the Monday etc after thanksgiving. Bummer. Definitely no desert gold ride for me! The fates were against me this year, so glad I did camp far west! Loving my current block (repro)!